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From the library
Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.
Full fathom five thy father lies; of his bones are coral made.
The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him.
I do not know whose son it is. It might appear to have been before God.
A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish man despiseth his mother.
(The Tao) which originated all under the sky is to be considered as the mother of them all.
A foolish son is a grief to his father, and bitterness to her that bare him.
(Conceived of as) having no name, it is the Originator of heaven and earth; (conceived of as) having a name, it is the Mother of all things.
For I was my father’s son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother.
The sage has in the world an appearance of indecision, and keeps his mind in a state of indifference to all. The people all keep their eyes and ears directed to him, and he deals with them all as his children.
Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.
He who possesses the mother of the state may continue long. His case is like that (of the plant) of which we say that its roots are deep and its flower stalks firm:—this is the way to secure that its enduring life shall long be seen.
There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.
When the mother is found, we know what her children should be. When one knows that he is his mother's child, and proceeds to guard (the qualities of) the mother that belong to him, to the end of his life he will be free from all peril.
Hear, ye children, the instruction of a father, and attend to know understanding.
There was something undefined and complete, coming into existence before Heaven and Earth. How still it was and formless, standing alone, and undergoing no change, reaching everywhere and in no danger (of being exhausted)! It may be regarded as the Mother of all things.
My son, be wise, and make my heart glad, that I may answer him that reproacheth me.
Therefore when the sovereign occupies his place as the Son of Heaven, and he has appointed his three ducal ministers, though (a prince) were to send in a round symbol-of-rank large enough to fill both the hands, and that as the precursor of the team of horses (in the court-yard), such an offering would not be equal to (a lesson of) this Tao, which one might present on his knees.
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Who knows his manhood's strength, Yet still his female feebleness maintains; As to one channel flow the many drains, All come to him, yea, all beneath the sky. Thus he the constant excellence retains; The simple child again, free from all stains. Who knows how white attracts, Yet always keeps himself within black's shade, The pattern of humility displayed, Displayed in view of all beneath the…
A fool despiseth his father’s instruction: but he that regardeth reproof is prudent.
Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness.
Cease, my son, to hear the instruction that causeth to err from the words of knowledge.
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
Children’s children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers.
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
In the fear of the Lord is strong confidence: and his children shall have a place of refuge.
Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
He that delicately bringeth up his servant from a child shall have him become his son at the length.
A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping.
He that gathereth in summer is a wise son: but he that sleepeth in harvest is a son that causeth shame.
The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.
He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.
The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.
A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children’s children: and the wealth of the sinner is laid up for the just.
Whoso robbeth his father or his mother, and saith, It is no transgression; the same is the companion of a destroyer.
A wise servant shall have rule over a son that causeth shame, and shall have part of the inheritance among the brethren.
The eye that mocketh at his father, and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.